Last weekend I visited my paternal grandmother (Mamie) for Mothers' Day. She lives in a quiet retirement village on the Central Coast of New South Wales and I spent the afternoon with her, one of my aunts and her husband, and a cousin; eating and taking in the bush surroundings. After lunch we went for a wander around the streets of the village and I found myself imagining coming to stay with my Mamie and writing. Maybe I would write her story for her; maybe I would write more of my own imaginings.
As I left, I realised that Mamie might not be around for very much longer and that I had, by living in Melbourne, inadvertently missed out on a whole lot of time I might have otherwise spent with her. Some time during the afternoon she had said to me that she would love to read any books I had published in the future, "if I'm still alive". This is, obviously, something very sad to think about, but it is also a wonderful motivation to get on with doing some writing. My Mamie might never read a published book of mine but I'm going to make sure she gets to read some of my work. I am going to hand-write her stories and send them to her the old-fashioned way: encased in an envelope.
Sunday, May 18, 2008
Grandmothers
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I just checked out your blog via Cinta's (One Little Acorn). You have some nice photos...
ReplyDeleteI lost both of my parents early and I remember telling everyone who would listen at mums funeral to "get your parents story" down before it was too late...
Go up and spend some time with your grandmother, get her story down, publish it and have her read it before she "heads off"... Do it soon...